Monday, June 24, 2013

A Complaint Against GMA-7's My Husband's Lover

Bro. Rollie, our group leader in Courage Philippines, just recently filed a letter of complaint addressed to the MTRCB against the airing of GMA-7's latest 'telenovela' My Husband's Lover because of its strong pro-gay message. He has also been fighting it out on MHL FB page with Suzette Doctolero herself, but sadly he was being severely criticized in that FB group discussion because of his dissenting comments against the airing of MHL and for promoting the truth about same-sex attraction.

I've read that this 'bekiserye' is popular not only among the gay crowd but even with the non-gay crowd, which is quite an interesting phenomenon. There are so many things going for MHL. It is the first of its kind to be shown on Philippine TV which undoubtedly contributes much to its popularity. You've got top-rate actors and actresses portraying their respective roles excellently. Not to mention all the hype and publicity that the media has created for its leading characters Tom Rodriguez (Vincent) and Dennis Trillo (Eric), tagging them with the monicker TomDen, one of the country's "hottest loveteam" at the moment. And of course, Kuh's rendition of its theme song 'One More Try' really adds to all that drama as well.  That's showbusiness what do you expect?

On the flip side, there is really nothing much to expect from MHL. The story of a married man who falls in love with another man has been tackled over and over again in most gay indie films. The character of Vincent's father, who is a retired homophobic military general is so stereotypical. You can almost predict where all this will lead to - the rekindling of old flame, infidelity, suspicion, discovery of the affair, and the ensuing family conflict and drama. Who will Vincent choose in the end - his wife or his lover? Sounds familiar? You bet.


Dear MTRCB Board,

I am a concerned citizen, and I would like to write about my disturbed spirit over GMA7's television show "My Husband's Lover" being aired every night as part of their Telebabad series of soap operas.

I am concerned that this show is guided by the gay agenda that deems to desensitize our viewing public with the following ideas about homosexuality:

* Homosexuality is a gift of nature.

* Homosexual behavior cannot be controlled.

* Homosexuals are preoccupied seeking romantic sexual relationships with the same-sex.

* The Church is homophobic and propagate a culture of hate against homosexual persons.

* Homosexuals who are accepted for what they are AND for what they do live happy lives.

* Once a homosexual, always a homosexual.

I am a person with same-sex attractions, and I see these ideas as perversions of the truth about homosexuality, as I counter these lies with the following truths:

* A homosexual is a person with same-sex attractions.

* There is a difference between homosexual attraction and homosexual behavior.

* Homosexuality is not all of genetics but more of environment.

* Homosexuals have choices.

* Change is difficult but possible for the homosexual.

* There are groups available to help homosexuals who decide to change.

* God, through the Church, loves the homosexual person.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church clearly states that homosexuals “…must be accepted with respect, compassion and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided.”

- Cardinal Ratzinger’s (now Pope Benedict XVI) Letter to the Bishops On the Pastoral Care of Homosexual Persons (1986)

I am concerned because I have been engaging in dialogue with the writers of this show on their facebook account, but it seems that they are adamant in presenting their own beliefs about family life and individual human rights (gay rights). With this, it is most likely that they will transmit their own beliefs and values through this show upon our innocently watching viewing public.

I have reminded them of their responsibility as media persons to inculcate authentic Filipino values to our public, but they just scoffed at me and attacked me personally.

I would like to ask your good office to put this show under strict monitoring, for though this show is rated Strict Parental Guidance, we are after the fair treatment of this show on such a sensitive topic such as homosexuality.

Homosexual persons should be treated with respect and compassion, but the promotion of the homosexual lifestyle (having sex with persons of the same sex) as a good thing is a disservice to the general viewing public. Please note that I have viewed the latest data from DOH (March 2013) on HIV cases and homosexual acts is listed as the number one factor of transmitting this disease. This fact along with my own (and others like me) personal journey out of homosexuality begs to disagree.

We owe it to our people to show programs that will lead them to a better understanding of reality, but still inculcating authentic Filipino values about family and marriage.

I hope that my request of strict monitoring of this show would be considered.

Thank you so much and God bless you!

Rolando C. delos Reyes II


Addendum:  To those who want to express their disgust with GMA7's My Husband's Lover which has the subtle message of promoting homosexuality among our young people - please sign the petition below:


  1. bro pareho tayong taga SFC-Meralco naiintindihan ko ang ipinag lalaban mo pero alam mo walang wala ka na talaga sa lugar. The show is not promoting gay relationship. Ipinapakita lang na merong love triangle. May kabit si lalake normal to sa mga teleserye kung irereklamo mo ang show na to sana ireklamo mo din yung ibang show na puro kabit din ang tema. Di ko kasi maintindihan kung bakit etong show lang na to ang pinag iinitan mo e. Pinapanood ko to kasama ng asawa ko pero hindi naman nagiging bakla ang asawa ko. bakla ka na dati pa wag kung sino sino ang sinisisi mo. ang personalidad ng isang tao ay base sa kung ano ang gusto nating maging tao. Wala pang my husbands lover bakla ka na at hanggang ngayon bakla ka paren sarili mo ang sisihin mo wag kung sino sino ok? enough na annoying ka na e di lang ako nag cocomment sa facebook status mo dahil pag ginawa ko malamang iba nanaman ang tingin nyo saken

  2. Very well said me. Anomymous...kung sino pa ang bading sya pa may ganang magreklamo na imoralidad ang tv show...obvious paboritong paborito nya ang husbands lover kaya inuubos nya oras nya magkakat sa facebook nang mhl...baka kasi madiscover sya at gawin syang extra sa tv word ko sa letter nya...HYPOCRICY

  3. Itong si Rolly ay isang maligalig na bakla na nagipilit magpakalalak pero bigo kaya ang galit ay idinadaan niya sa iba. Kahit mawala ang MHL, susmaryusep, madami pa ring beki.

  4. To all commenters,

    I am the moderator of this blog and I already informed Rollie about your comments here.

    One favor though. Please refrain from making below the belt remarks. Stick to the issues.

    After this post I will no longer allow posters with degrading remarks against the person of Bro. Rollie. Only those with legitimate and objective views of the issues will be published.

    Thank you.

    CP Moderator

  5. To the Anonymous commenters who doesn't have the guts to show their profiles (especially the one who brags herself as SFC Meralco) - how dare you're still in SFC is you don't practice your faith.

    Thank you for showing me and the countless people who view this blog that I am right - that indeed GMA7's My Husband's Lover is polluting the minds of our people to agree with the subtle messages of acceptance of the gay lifestyle in Philippine media, whom we know are biased in favor of promoting homosexuality in the Philippines. Your comments directly show your pro-gay stance.

    I am concerned that GMA7's writers are naive in thinking that by rating their show SPG, they are sparing our young people from viewing the show, while they clandestinely promote this show in morning shows and prime time programs. Young people are greatly influenced by media, and there are not enough parents to guide them - and GMA7 is acting a cold shoulder on this as if they don't have any responsibility as media persons.

    Note: MTRCB has already responded to my complaint and here is their response.

    "We sincerely appreciate your vigilance in safeguarding the welfare of the viewing public.

    We do note that there is an avalanche of comment and negative feedback concerning the above-mentioned television program. As the bridge to the network and the public, we have brought the matter to the attention of GMA Network, Inc. as early as 10 June 2013 (during this period, we were already receiving reactions from the public concerning the television plug of the said show where there was a “near-kiss” scene by two male cast members) for their appropriate response. We have encouraged the officials of GMA Network, Inc. to consider airing its plugs for the program later during the evening and not during the time within the day where children are expected to be in front of the television set. However, we have not received any feedback from GMA 7 as of this writing. Nevertheless, rest assured that we will forward your complaint (together with the other complaints) to the producers of “My Husband’s Lover, as well as to GMA Network, Inc..

    Indeed, we are closely monitoring the subject television program, and we will take steps (such as by discussing with them the concerns of the public and the possible appropriate actions or measures needed be taken) to address the grievances of the viewing public.

    Thank you."